What is Dialogue?

The concept of dialogue can be characterised as follows:

  • The free and creative exploration of complex and subtle issues
  • Deep listening
  • Suspending of one's own views and communicating assumptions freely

The purpose of dialogue is to go beyond any one individual's understanding. To allow the group to access a 'pool of common meaning'. This means that we make 'hot topics' discussable and thus they become windows to deeper insights. This implies we have to practice the art of holding a position or point of view gently, rather than being 'held by our own positions'.

  Mr. Johan Bontje

We have discovered that there are a number of conditions for successful dialogue:

  • Slow down the discussion using silence
  • Minimise 'cross talk' and discussion. Let all participants speak from their heart and put their truth in the middle of the group
  • Ensure confidentiality
  • Enhance trust and the willingness to regard each other as human beings, not adversaries, not as people with more or less power.
  • Make use of facilitators who 'hold the context' of dialogue and help the participants to maintain ownership of the process and the outcomes.