 |
1 RELEASE your personal agenda and expectations
- Be open and examine your motives for wanting to say something
- In case you have any personal interests, make them known to the group
- Examine your opinions, do not hang on to them, look for reasons to give them up
2 Be here and in the NOW
- Be happy with what you are today. Not what you did yesterday or where you want to be tomorrow
3 First LISTEN, then be silent
- Respect everyone who speaks authentically, respect does not mean accept
- Endeavour to sense the deepest meaning, the essence of what someone is trying to say. Do not speak until you have succeeded in this
- Listen as a human being to another human being, not as members of different groups or organizations
4 Speak your deepest knowing from your HEART
- Always allow a brief silence before a reaction
- Speak only your deepest knowing, not your first thought
- Share why you say what you say, share your underlying motivation
- Be succinct and focused, speak softly and slowly
- Do not repeat yourself, trust that people will have listened
5 TRUST result will come
- Enjoy the sharing and the encounters
- Focus on understanding and learning not on results
- Be prepared to receive something more beautiful than ever thought of
|
|
